Ever felt a rising urge of
hitting a person right on his head with a hammer just because that person is an
idiot? Ever felt a hate so strong towards the system that you want to bomb the
whole system for being illogical? Ever had a feeling of buying a MAG and
sniping down every nut-head in the world? What if I tell you, we all get this
feeling every day? And the society has turned into nothing but a quick sand
pool of idiocy. Everyone has questions against everything in the system, all
rebellions are considered terrorist activities, everyone has their judgments over everything but no one wants to do something to change it or develop it.
And when there is one man standing to change it there are thousand others
pulling him back to the sludge. The freedom to live the way we want is taken
out by these judgmental pricks. Every aspect of life is connected to faith,
religion and culture; making situations more difficult and idiotic. The walk of
life has now turned into a walk through a war zone covered with mines, one wrong
step and imminent devastation. We only call ourselves free but are truly slaves
to this unsanitary society of judgmental life form, where every individual is
a supreme court all in oneself. And that is where the rising hatred and
frustration towards this society comes in.
Humans all around are born
with this innate quality of judging a fellow human with no base concept. The
subconscious moto of each and every average human mind is to judge a person.
And the judgments are taken by the use of only two sensory organs, EYES and
EARS. And not even using it to the best. While using these sensory organs we
forget one thing to use with it, THE MIND. Because the mind used with these
organs give us an ultimate fusion of these senses which is preferably known as
COMMON SENSE. And common sense used before judging someone gives one knowledge
the knowledge of ACCEPTANCE and IGNORANCE. Acceptance to legitimate things and
people around you and ignorance towards rumors about them. Understanding to
these crucial facts comes only through the knowledge of these two points of the
human nature.
Keeping all these facts and
psychology of understanding aside; the question is simple… why do we judge
people? Is it insecurity? Is it jealousy? Is it pure happiness? What is it? Why
do we find such mediocre and useless nature so meaningful and interesting? We
are a breed that found its way out through the harsh situations in life. A breed
that is the most intelligent on this phase of earth. But why isn't that
intelligence of no use at such situations? Why don’t we get the basic concept
of freedom and independence in way of life engraved in our brains? There is no
medicine or treatments for this kind of behavioral malfunctioning, but only a
solution and that is self-realization and change. We must just get that stupid
head of ours straight and start minding our business rather than others.
The actual reason for this
kind of behavior what I find is idleness. Our minds are so idle and jobless
that we find happiness thinking about people rather than ideas. Every idle mind
is a nice warm shelter for this judgmental behavior If you rather want an
example look around you, the people judging you are none other than those
social jobless friends, Mrs chopra, verma, sharma, patel, etc. etc. jobless
aunties, cultural activists who think you are in debt to them as you are born
in a country of cultures (what I shortly mean is jobless people). So this idle
mind is the one that makes noise. And how we get into doing that? Simple… peer
pressure. We tend to go with the flow and I am sad to see that the flow is so
jobless. But I am sadder to see that our mind doesn't tend to be unique. If we
be more unique and creative, we would be rather better people on the planet and
responsible humans than those stinky judgmental pigs. But as said before it’s
a slow process of self- realization and change.
And a note to those sensitive
people around who lose their unique charm just because someone would/does judge
you. Buy a pair of earplugs, shove it in your ears, and resume what you love.
Always remember these words “If you get hurt by words, or you are manipulated
by them you are weaker than a feather off a birds wing.” And also “they might
judge you and stop you but they are not the one to feed you and advice you
during your difficult times.” So better relax and resume what you like. Its
better to do something foolish and stay happy all your life than regretting
about not doing it later. In simple modern words “DON’T GIVE A FUCK!”
And some piece of advice for
the judgmental pigs, get a job, start doing something you like, start
reviewing your life from the past, understand MATHS, and start a bonsai
plantation. There are many thing to do in life rather than looking at a gay couple
and bringing in your gods and culture in for no reason. If god doesn't love gay
men he doesn't love you either. Or you could rather indulge in a fun task of
finding your god. So when you judge a person next time you would stop or rather
get down to thinking about something else.
In brief stop judging and get
busy with something because you are no one in this ever-growing world. Your
opinions, decisions and judgments are not required till they asked for. And
one last quote “don’t judge a book by its cover, not even after reading it
cause it might be useless to you but may have bought knowledge and inspiration
to hundreds.”
-Mr
White.
